2017 End of Year Reflection

I used to ask the kids questions at the end of each year and it was super fun to go back and read their answers. They haven't been interested in letting me do it the past few years, so I tried again this year. They actually cooperated!  

A, age 10

B, age 7

What is your favorite thing to wear?

A: tennis shoes

B: pj pants

What is one thing you learned this year?

A: I learned how to drive the 4 wheeler with Daddy.

B: How to drive the Gator.

How do you like to spend your spare time?

A: Watching TV.

B: Play video games.

What are you really good at?

A: Swimming

B: Soccer

What's the last book you read?

A: Dork Diaries

B: Dog Man

What did you love most about this year?

A: Going to Florida.

B: The best thing about this year is that we got another new puppy. That's the best thing.

What is your favorite TV show?

A: Fuller House

B: Troll Hunters

What do you think makes a person good looking?

A: Their hair.

B: I don't know.

What will you be doing 10 years from now?

A: Finding a house in Colorado.

B: Going to high school and learning.

Tell me about a funny time in your life.

A: When, at your doctor's office, I left Brecken in the elevator. He just said, "Help" very quietly before the door closed.

B: When I scared Daddy so hard. I got him back for what he did when he scared me. I cried to death.

What is the grossest thing you can think of?

A: Butternut Squash

B: Poop

Name two places we should go on vacation in 2018.

A: Colorado and Disney World

B: Holiday Island and Topeka

What is the best thing about being 10?

A: You are finally double digits!

What is the worst thing about being 10?

A: I guess everyone expects a little more of you.

What is the best thing about being 7?

B: You get a lot of stuff.

What is the worst thing about being 7?

B: Nothing.

What is the nicest thing you did for someone this year?

A: I donated quarters to the Salvation Army. It just felt good after I did it.

B: Help pick up the drawing pads that fell at the store.

What is one word to describe you?

A: Silly

B: Nice

What will you do when you grow up?

A: I will become the greatest Navy Seal, astronaut or artist that ever lived. And move to Colorado.

B: I would be a vet.

Any goals for 2018?

A: Stop watching so much TV and just play.

B: Nope. Except to beat Disco Kid on Punch Out. (At this point he wants me to leave him alone)

Here are a couple of old reflections to keep you entertained:

2014 Reflection

2013 Reflection

Girls on the Run

After doing the GOTR fall 5k with Ava, I decided I wanted to start it up at Stanley. So, I made sure we'd have some coaches and signed up! It was an amazing experience! If you've never heard of it, the program is "designed to empower young girls to believe in themselves and embrace their full potential as they become young adults". Girls on the Run is a 10-week program, training 3rd-5th grade girls for a 5k and teaching them essential life skills.
One piece of GOTR is a community impact project and our girls decided to help the homeless. They made posters, hung them up in the hallways, made announcements at morning community and over the intercom at the end of the day, and talked to their friends and families about their project. The girls made a goal of 500 food items and they ended up with over 650. So exciting! At the end of the season, they bagged everything and handed it over to an organization called Rock & Roll and Change the World. They even got to learn a little about homelessness and the kinds of people the food would be helping. Very proud of them!
A few weeks before the real deal, we had a practice 5k at school. Each girl had a running buddy and it was super fun! Parents and a few teachers came out to cheer them on and I think it really pumped up our GOTR team. They even received cute little medals and a certificate.
The real 5k was May 9. The morning consisted of smiles, laughter, nervousness, crazy socks, power poms for tennis shoes, colorful hair, painted faces, loud music, zumba, tired legs, encouragement, hugs, tears and accomplishment. Can't wait to do it all again in the fall!
We have tons of pictures from our season, but I wasn't sure if I should post them on here without permission from parents, so I did not. So, sorry...the pics are kind of boring, but the experience was not. :)

Some of the items that were donated at school.

Starting to fill up the pantry to which the donation was made.

They filled up these shelves and had lots more leftover that wouldn't even fit at the moment!

A little energy snack before the practice 5k.

Shoes and socks decorated and the girls were ready to rock the real 5k!

Miss Ava did the 5k with my mom this time, but she'll be my running buddy in the fall. :)

Happy Birthday, B-man!

B-man turned five at the end of April. He was SO excited. I mean really. 

Last night as a four year old.

Birthday dinner at BJ's Brewhouse...his favorite.

Cute little transformers partying it up before swimming at the Y for B's birthday. I tried to get a pic of ALL the kids swimming but they wouldn't slow down long enough! 

Make a wish!

With Nana and Papa!

One of his favorite gifts!

Chicago!

So we went to Chicago for the NRA show.  No, not that NRA...the National Restaurant Association. It was a "work" weekend for Erick and a play weekend for me. Yay!
The first night, we were treated to dinner at Joe's, listened to music at the Hideout, and experienced Second City (so darn funny). The next day, I slept off my headache while Erick worked. We then went to the Cubs game! Had beer, nachos, hot dog...got sunflower seeds spit on us...good stuff! We went to the Menu Masters awards ceremony and ate even more fabulous food, drank a little more wine. The ladies and I walked Michigan Avenue for a while on Sunday, then met the guys for brunch at Shaw's Crab House. We pretty much ate ourselves silly. Omg. Thank goodness we had some time afterwards to walk it off. We walked around Millennium Park and Navy Pier, taking everything in and thinking that next time, we'd bring the kiddos. We then had one more party on our last night. It was very cool...more food and beverages. We had some yummy cheesy pizza before we made it back to the hotel to pack so we'd be ready to leave early the next morning. Such a wonderful second trip to Chicago! And so much work to get wined and dined. :)

Dinner at Joe's. Fabulous seafood, steak, chicken, wine, everything!

The Hideout...so fun!

Cubs!

Cubbies game with the Freddy's gang

All dressed up with somewhere to go.

Random street guy. 

The Bean

Navy Pier

Seriously? We bought a red velvet cupcake from the ATM. Super yummy.

We Made It!

We made it! It's officially summer break!

I had a fabulous year as a reading intervention teacher. I loved working with small groups (though some were a little tougher than others), testing students for intervention, analyzing data, celebrating growth, working with my teammate, etc. What a great year!

Kelly and I after a work day. A much needed afternoon off!

Ava had a good year in first grade, although she had been counting down the days until break since December. :( She had a bit of a tough class this year and was pretty sensitive about it...just wanted it to be over. Made me kind of sad, especially since I've had the same kind of class and I felt bad for the "good" kids. She did have fun with friends and did very well academically...it wasn't like it was SO awful. Here's a first and last day picture for ya!

Brecken's PreK year was super and he had lots of fun with his buddies! B loved playing in centers and outside on the playground. He is very excited to start Kindergarten in the fall, although I'm a little nervous. I'm sure all will be well. Here's his first and last day picture!

We will definitely stay busy this summer! The Littles are both playing summer ball and taking a couple weeks of swim lessons. Ava will still be climbing at the Y and will also do another week of CYT summer camp. B was doing karate in the spring and may go back to that when ball is over. They have two games a week! 

So I've obviously gotten way behind on my posts...hopefully I can get caught up over the summer! :)

Christmas Eve

We did our traditional thing on Christmas Eve this year. Church, dinner with Mimi and presents! Dinner was fabulous, of course (made by the hubs) and we had a really fun evening!

Mimi and the Littles

My little Loves

Love them to pieces!

Tickle fight!

Mimi and the kids playing Legos.

Writing letters to Santa! Cookies, milk and carrots are all ready to go.

A Little Reflection

We decided to answer our reflection questions again, like last year! 

What was the single best thing that happened this past year?
Erick: I think we’ve all gotten closer as a family. 
Heather: We’ve gotten so much debt paid off and put our house on the market!

What was the single most challenging thing that happened?
Erick: Overcoming panic attacks.
Heather: Parenting a four year old boy!

What was an unexpected joy this past year?
Erick: Finding running again.
Heather: I am loving Erick’s happiness and really wanting to be healthy. It is also super nice to not have five million bills to pay!

What was an unexpected obstacle or not so great thing?
Erick: Panic attacks
Heather: Issues with my family…sicknesses, sadness…I’d love to heal everyone and make everyone happy. But I just can’t.

Pick three words to describe this past year.
Erick: Patience, strength, love
Heather: Loving, busy, beautiful

Three words to describe your spouse's year.
Erick: I would describe Heather's year as...frustration, relaxation, and fulfillment.
Heather: I would describe Erick's year as...full of patience, growth and positivity.

What were the best books you read this year?
Erick: Finding Ultra, Running on Empty
Heather: This is Where I Leave You, Big Little Lies

With whom were your most valuable relationships?

Erick: Heather, God and the kids.

Heather: Erick, the kids and my mom.

What was your biggest personal change from January to December of this past year?

Erick: Not relying on booze.   

Heather: I don’t think I had a personal change. Answering these questions has made me realize that I don’t focus on myself and my changes. I focus on making sure all my people are happy and doing well with their lives. I need something that’s “mine”. I need to work out or have some sort of an outlet.   

In what way did you grow emotionally?

Erick: Probably just learning to deal with my emotions. 

Heather: I think I’ve grown more patient in some ways. But in another, I’ve decided to not be so patient and deal with things I don’t think I should have to worry about. Don’t sweat the small stuff, right? Not my circus, not my monkeys. J

In what way did you grow spiritually?

Erick: Learning to reply on God more and truly seek his guidance on a daily basis.

Heather: Talking more with God and trying to get my family to do the same. I need to do better with this, as it kind of goes in waves.  

In what way did you grow physically?

Erick: I started to get in better shape by running again. I’m eating better and taking better care of myself. 

Heather: I lost weight and I’m currently gaining it back over this winter break!

In what way did you grow in your relationships with others?

Erick: Being more honest and opening myself up more. 

Heather: I think Erick and I are always growing stronger. I’ve tried to be a good friend to others, but I’d still like to spend more time with girlfriends. 

What was the most enjoyable part of your work (both professionally and at home)?

Erick: For work…making a difference in struggling restaurants. At home…trying to be a better example to my children. 

Heather: I love my job this school year and it’s such a fabulous change from teaching first grade all day long. Teaching small groups of reading is very fun, rewarding, and frustrating. J At home, the most enjoyable part is just to be with my family, getting closer, making traditions and having lots of fun!

What was the most challenging part of your work (both professionally and at home)?

Erick: It’s all the same…traveling and being away from home. 

Heather: The challenging part of work is teaching the lower readers, some of which already hate to read in elementary school. I want to help them love reading! At home, the challenge is having patience with Ava who doesn’t want to know my way of doing things…just wants to do it her way. Can you imagine?! :) And having patience with Brecken who is the sweetest little man and then a little devil that can’t be controlled. The last challenge is being a single mom when Erick travels and getting back into the swing of things when he gets back in town. 

What was your single biggest time waster in your life this year? 

Erick: Thinking too much…overthinking things. And laundry.

Heather: Just doing other things rather than what needs to be done.  

What was the best way you used your time this past year?

Erick: Spending time with the family.

Heather: Duh. Being with my family. Love the cuddles!

What was the biggest thing you learned this past year?

Erick: To trust in God more. 

Heather: Patience…still working on it though.

Create a phrase or statement that describes this past year for you.

Keep moving forward. Things will always get better!